Iyanla: Fix My Life - Season 4

Iyanla Vanzant travels to Nanuet, New York, to help rapper, actor and reality TV star Saigon and Erica Jean, his on-again, off-again lover and mother to his son. Many know the couple for their tumultuous relationship displayed on the reality series Love & Hip Hop: New York. Although they have a child together, anger, fighting, resentment and a failure to communicate are threatening their ability to effectively co-parent their young son, Steven.

Life coach Iyanla Vanzant travels to Los Angeles to work with Bonnie, a woman in crisis, whose weight has spiraled to a staggering 600 pounds, confining her to her home and bed for years. In this gripping episode, Iyanla helps Bonnie examine the emotional road that led to her health crisis, beginning with the death of her mother and the increasingly deteriorating relationship with her daughter and caretaker, Jamesha. Through one-on-one therapy sessions with Bonnie and revealing joint sessions with Jamesha, Iyanla works to repair their relationship and lead Bonnie to a healthier lifestyle and a loving future with her daughter.

Life coach Iyanla Vanzant travels to St. Louis to tackle a dysfunctional relationship among business co-owners and sisters Laurie and Anna and their sister/employee, Crystal. Consistent miscommunication and gossiping threaten to destroy their successful healthcare business and to rip their entire family apart. In a highly emotional episode, Iyanla uncovers how Laurie's daughter, Raquel, may be at the center of the sisters' destructive relationships.

Iyanla visits a Chicago mother supporting seven people under her roof, including her two adult children, their partners and two grandchildren. As the only member of the household with a steady job, Alma has been watching her home descend into chaos and has been struggling to keep afloat. Can Iyanla help this family find a way out of their close quarters?

Life coach Iyanla Vanzant travels to Pennsylvania to work with Jennifer and David. Despite being married for two decades and having two sons, David admits to lying to Jennifer, cheating on her multiple times and leading a double life. Iyanla works with them individually and then brings them together. After David admits to a pornography addiction and to cheating on Jennifer for the first time only 30 days after their wedding day, Iyanla realizes that the marriage may be beyond repair.

Life coach Iyanla Vanzant travels to New York, where a father's marriage and his relationship with his children are in serious jeopardy. Four years ago, husband and father Robert stopped drinking after years of doing so to excess. Unfortunately, his history of anger and lashing out at his family continues, causing more and more distance, resentfulness and hurt in his family. Iyanla works with Robert and his wife, Donna, to remember the friendship they once shared. In an emotional moment, the family comes to grips with the damage caused by Robert and Donna's inability to protect daughters Lauren and Frankie during the most vulnerable moments of their lives.

Iyanla travels to Los Angeles to meet with the Sullivans, a family in which an adult son, Donye, is caught in the middle of a feud between his mother, Carolyn, and his wife, Kysha. The situation has deteriorated to the point where Carolyn has not seen Donye, Kysha or her only grandson, Cairo, in about a year. Iyanla confronts Carolyn about an offensive voice mail she left Kysha that ignited a war between the two women. Carolyn is furious at Kysha for keeping her away from Cairo and is angry with Donye for passively playing the middleman. Iyanla works with the family in hopes of bringing resolution to the flaring emotions at the center of this love triangle.

Iyanla heads to rural Minnesota to help a former nurse whose family refuses to forgive her after her headline-making mistake threatens to ruin the family's reputation. Head nurse Tess was found guilty of stealing her patients' pain medications. However, Iyanla soon discovers that each member of this family needs to take a good look in the mirror. Tess' mother and sisters all have their own stories of shame. Iyanla works with the women to focus on healing themselves before pointing their fingers at each other.

This special episode follows Iyanla on an emotional trip to Ferguson, Missouri, as she embeds herself in the local community and works to empower citizens by helping them formulate a plan for peace and healing in the wake of the shooting death of Michael Brown. Iyanla visits the memorial site first, spending hours reaching out to individuals affected by the tragic event and offering them ways to move past their anger. Then, she brings Pastor Charles Ewing, Michael Brown's uncle, face-to-face with Thomas Jackson, the Ferguson police chief. Together, they discuss the need for peace so that the system has time to work. Not stopping there, Iyanla hosts a community discussion, sits down with a group of young men—some of whom profess to be gang members—and makes her way past National Guard checkpoints to join a peaceful protest with community leaders and Welcome to Sweetie Pie's star Tim Norman. Later, as a first healing step, Iyanla encourages everyone to choose peace.

Jay, a 44-year-old video producer, has fathered 34 children with 17 different women in addition to adopting nine other children. Jay finds it difficult to provide for his kids, and it's clear that he will not be able to successfully fulfill his role as a father until he addresses the underlying reasons behind his reckless behavior. In one of her most challenging cases to date, Iyanla must help Jay come face-to-face with feelings of hurt and resentment that are the result of his parents' emotional abandonment of him. The void stemming from these unresolved issues has locked Jay in a seemingly endless cycle of women and children. Iyanla must also address the wrongs caused by Jay's parents, as well as the pain and resentment his actions have caused for his children and their mothers.
 

In a special three-part episode, Iyanla travels to the Atlanta area to help a man reconcile faltering relationships with his children and their mothers as well as his own parents.

In a special three-part episode, Iyanla helps a man reconcile faltering relationships with his children and their mothers as well as his own parents. Look back at Part 1 and Part 2 Jay, a 44-year-old video producer, has fathered 34 children with 17 different women in addition to adopting nine other children. Jay finds it difficult to provide for his kids, and it's clear that he will not be able to successfully fulfill his role as a father until he addresses the underlying reasons behind his reckless behavior. In one of her most challenging cases to date, Iyanla must help Jay come face-to-face with feelings of hurt and resentment that are the result of his parents' emotional abandonment. The void stemming from these unresolved issues has locked Jay in a seemingly endless cycle of women and children. Iyanla must also address the wrongs caused by Jay's parents, as well as the pain and resentment his actions have caused his children and their mothers.

During this Iyanla: Fix My Life special event, Iyanla tackles the issue of wounded women settling for wounded men. She's joined in studio by a group of women, including many of the mothers featured on "Fix My Father with 34 Children."

In Part 2 of a follow-up special, Iyanla once again comes face-to-face with Jay, a man who says he's fathered 34 children with 17 women. Tune in to see a candid in-studio discussion with a group of men about love, infidelity and the responsibilities of being a father.

On the heels of the controversial, multipart mega-fix featuring Jay, a man who says he has fathered 34 children with 17 different women, Iyanla brings Jay into the studio for a no-holds-barred, face-to-face discussion the first time the two have come together since the original episodes were taped. During the second part of a follow-up talk, Iyanla engages Jay and a group of men some of whom also have many children with different women in an emotional dialogue about love, infidelity and the responsibilities of fatherhood.

On the heels of her controversial multipart mega-fix featuring Jay a man who says he fathered 34 children with 17 different women Iyanla brings him into the studio for a no-holds-barred, face-to-face discussion in the season finale. Iyanla is also joined by fathers, mothers and children in crisis. They share their personal stories as part of a final discussion about a national epidemic of men not living up to their responsibilities as father